3 Proven Steps to Get Out of Single Life

There was some breaking news on TV but I didn’t care about it. I was sobbing into my pillow. Yet again I was disappointed after a hot date I had previously that night. This time I really thought the guy was different. I really wished he would be different. “Aaaah!” The pillow I threw knocked […]


How to Escape the Singles’ Loop of Despair

I was browsing through one of the FB dating groups the other day. I do that now and then to see whether something has changed since I was looking to meet someone online. In case you are wondering, it hasn’t changed a bit for the last 15 years. As I was perusing the posts, I was […]


QUIZ: Are You Trapped in a Singles’ Loop of Despair?

You are single for quite some time now. Even though you are looking (and you are looking hard!) you still can’t meet a decent guy/gal to date. There is always something wrong with them. If you like them they don’t return your calls. Or they are just fooling around. Or they carry excess baggage. Maybe you […]

No. 1 Fear When Being Single

I know some singles are struggling with their relationship status and/or their environment. As I’ve explained in this post, they are dealing with inner and outer pressure of being single. But I was curious, what is the number one struggle they are facing as singles. So I’ve asked my readers what is bothering them the […]

How to Know You Are Truly Ready for Love

“Oh, why me!? Why nobody loves me? What is wrong with me?” I was unstoppably sobbing into a pillow for the X-th time. The pain of loneliness overran my body, while my mind was drowning in gloomy thoughts. Normally, I was OK with being single. I got used to it. That’s how it was. That’s who […]

Are You Trapped in a Singles’ Loop of Despair?

“Singles’ what??” Singles’ Loop of Despair. If you are single for quite some time now, chances are you are trapped in it. Consciously or unconsciously. But let me explain what the Singles’ Loop of Despair actually is.   The Singles’ Loop of Despair The Singles’ Loop of Despair is a concept I came up with […]

30+ and STILL Single

Some time ago a co-worker of mine wanted me to read some interesting piece on 40+ single women and their thoughts on the matter. “Babe, why? We are thirty years old!” “Yes, but we are getting there.” Oh, c’mon, she was even younger than me! In her early thirties she was fretting about her forties. […]

The Surefire Way of Finding the Love of Your Life

The following is my first guest post, originally published at Vishnu’s Virtues.   “What about love?” My grandmother asked me this question a million times. And the answer was always the same. Nothing much. “How come, Nina? I’m reading your horoscope all the time, and it constantly mentions love and marriage are in the stars […]