A Flirting Problem

Here is a message I found in my Facebook mailbox today: I have a flirting problem and every time I flirt with other women my wife cheats on me with different men. How could I fix my marriage?   Dear reader, I believe everybody has a choice in what they do, or don’t do. You […]


What Love Languages Do You Speak

Melanie was washing the dishes while Bill was outside washing her car. She sighted quietly. Emptiness in her eyes revealed she was not happy with the relationship. “Cars! He loves those freaking cars more than me! He always talks about them. I don’t care if he changed the damn alternator. I don’t even know what that […]

How to Know You Are Truly Ready for Love

“Oh, why me!? Why nobody loves me? What is wrong with me?” I was unstoppably sobbing into a pillow for the X-th time. The pain of loneliness overran my body, while my mind was drowning in gloomy thoughts. Normally, I was OK with being single. I got used to it. That’s how it was. That’s who […]

Are Social Expectations Hindering Your Dreams

For some time now I have been thinking about social expectations in relation to love and how they correlate with people’s personal preferences and dreams about their love life. Which dreams are truly ours? Which dreams have we picked up from other people, our 11-year-old self or from society, and now we mistakenly think we […]