I got a question from Julie last night. Here’s what she wrote to me:
What would it take for me to finally get a man who loves me? Sometimes I think I will be alone forever. – Julie
I hear you, Julie! Fear of being alone forever is a very common fear. In fact, when I asked my readers what is the one thing that is bothering them the most about being single, the fear of being alone was the number one answer.
Because of this fear we make decisions that are not good for us. We settle for less, and give up our dreams of a loving, meaningful, and happy relationship. So the first thing you have to tackle, Julie, is this fear. You wouldn’t want to end up in an unfulfilling relationship just because you are afraid you will be alone forever, would you? You can get some ideas on how to do that here.
After you deal with this fear, you will notice you are much more relaxed, cheerful and confident. You will radiate your positive vibes, and that sure is attractive!
I wish you all the best, Julie, and enjoy life!